The Groom’s Countdown

• Meet with both sets of parents to discuss the budget and style of the wedding.
  
  

• Go with your fiancée and book the reception site. Many sites fill up quickly so the earlier you pick a spot, the better!
  
  

• Reserve your ceremony location.
  
  

• Choose your groomsmen. Figure on one usher per 50 guests.
  
  

• Decide on an Officiant.
  
  

• Write out a preliminary guest list. Be sure to get input from your parents.
  
  

• Register at one or several locations.
  
  

• Before selecting a caterer, go to a tasting.
  
  

• Choose and order your attire and your groomsmen’s outfits.
  
  

• Plan and book your honeymoon. Are you looking for fun, seclusion, fine dining? Contact a travel agent for help.
  
  

• Finalize the guest list.
  
  

• Order your wedding bands and decide on inscriptions.
  
  

• Check state requirements concerning marriage license and required medical tests.
  
  

• Decide on living arrangements and order furnishings.
  
  

• Buy wedding gifts for your bride and groomsmen.
  
  

• Get blood test for marriage license.
  
  

• Pick up your wedding rings, make sure they fit properly and check the inscription for accuracy.
  
  

• Pick up your marriage license.
  
  

• Give ushers instructions for seating the guests at the ceremony, especially if there are guests requiring special assistance.
  
  

• Practice your toast to the bride’s family.
  
  

• Pick up your rental attire and remind your groomsmen to do the same.
  
  

• Arrange for someone to bring the gifts from the reception to your home.
  
  

• Get a haircut.
  
  

• Attend the rehearsal and rehearsal dinner. Give gifts to groomsmen.
  
  

• Do something sweet for your bride. A short letter, a flower on her pillow…. she’s worked hard, show her how much you appreciate her.